So, you want to know exactly how many bytes are in all of the files under a given directory, and you only have a Mac OS X terminal to work with?
It should be easy, but it’s not.
Here, I’ll save you some time:
find . -type f -not -iname .ds_store -print0 | xargs -0 stat -f %z | awk '{s+=$1} END {print s}'
Of course I’m assuming you don’t want any of those nasty .DS_Store
files to be counted.